I had the best belly laugh this morning after I dropped my son off at school. When you exit the school, there are two lanes that turn in opposite directions, and a Volvo station wagon pulled up beside me. I was expecting to see a soccer mom with no makeup on, but instead a biker with a rat-tail pony tail and big hoop earrings stared back at me. He had a bandana tied around his head and super dark … [Read more...]
Depressed-God Why Take This From Me?
People seem to be ashamed that they are struggling with being depressed; I am guilty as well. I am finally coming out of a ten month (maybe longer) period of feeling depressed. Yes counselors struggle with depression too. I talked with a couple of friends about it, but most people have no idea how to deal with someone who is depressed. Suck it up, get on with your life, and you just need to do … [Read more...]
Integrity Check-King-Size Snickers
I was in line at King Soopers (Kroger for my southern readers) late Tuesday night buying a few groceries for my wife. I had to make sure I got a few things mailed before we left for Mississippi, and the post office is close to the grocery store. I went in and got a few things and proceeded to checkout. There was an elderly lady in front of me trying to pay for cigarettes with food stamps. I could … [Read more...]
Transitions
I see a lot of people in my office who seem to be stuck. I know the feeling well myself. There are times in my life when I have felt hopeless and unsure of myself. I am in one of those transitional periods now in my life. What I have found when working with myself or clients is that we all have trouble defining the transition that we are trying to make. We don't seem to understand that all … [Read more...]
Living Free
You ever feel like God is honing you; preparing you for something more than you are currently doing? I am in one of those places right now with God. He is forcing me to look under the covers again to check my motives for doing some of the things I am doing. There are a lot of people in the struggle of their life because of the way the economy is going, and more people are ending up in my … [Read more...]
Self-Made Coffins
I am really amazed how many people in our world feel like their stuck right now. When things get bad in our lives we all have a tendency to circle the wagons and fall further into isolation. Our culture has created an unhealthy reliance on our government, money, the American dream and anything else we can blame our current circumstances on. We have lost the ability to dream and desire for … [Read more...]



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